If you are reading this article, it is most likely that you have already found
your Ukrainian bride and dated her online for a while. Now you are considering
the possibility of coming to Ukraine to meet her personally and making acquaintance
with her friends and family.
Of course, you understand how important and consequential this meeting could
be for your relationships. Thus, in this article I would like to provide you
with some hints on how to impressing both your Ukrainian bride and her family.
Family and relatives are very important for Ukrainian women, as their local
culture is all family oriented. Many Ukrainian ladies go on living with their
parents until they get married, and even after that they would still visit them
often and listen to their advices and opinions.
When planning a visit to your Ukrainian bride's family, you should know that
Ukrainians are extremely hospital. By using word "extremely" I meant
to say that they would do all possible and even more to impress you by their
warm reception, and to set up a fully loaded table for you.
Ukrainian women are excellent cooks and your Ukrainian bride's mother would
work hard to please you by cooking and feeding you generously. So, do not eat
before you go to visit your lady's family. Also, try to eat as much as they
offer you, otherwise if you deny their hospitality you may hurt their feelings
and upset them.
Now, they would work hard to prepare for the meeting with you and accordingly
you should not show up at their house empty-handed. Thus, plan to bring some
gifts for all your Ukrainian bride's family members. First of all, bring a small
present for your sweetheart. It could be a bouquet of flowers and some sweets.
Also, find out more about your bride's family and bring small gifts for each
of her relatives. You may bring a bottle of good wine, cognac or vodka for her
father and some flowers and candy for her mother. If she has any brothers and
sisters, bring them some presents, too. If they are still kids, bring them some
toys and sweets.
For more grown up family members you may bring such small items as souvenirs
from your country, good stationary, fun cups, etc. If your lady has a child
bring him or her a good and fun present, this way you will win her heart and
the hearts of all family. These presents should not be expensive, but rather
they should show your care and desire to please them.
You should also consult your Ukrainian bride and find out if it would be appropriate
for you to buy some food, such as cheese, sausage or fruit, for instance. In
some families, they would gladly welcome such gifts. Besides, discuss with your
fiancee your dress code for the event. She knows her parents well and can advise
you as to your dressing style, so you would make the best impression possible
on her family. Otherwise, do not wear too casual clothes. Stick with something
more traditional and classic.